As a psychic reader, many clients always want to know when something will happen. The simple answer I give is when they invest their time and energy into what spirit suggests for their situation. I am living proof of doing this all these years and my strongest client base are the ones who do not believe me and do the absolute opposite of what I have suggested only to find out later that what I predicted came to pass. Many clients have their view of things and while everyone is entitled to believe what they choose to believe, it is hard even as a psychic reader for me to ignore the strong energies and messages that come through during a reading . I am going to share a real story with you about a client of mine. For the sake of her confidentiality, I am going to call her Joan.
Joan used to get readings with me 3 years ago about her relationship. At that time, she was deeply in love with her ex that came back expressing how much he missed her and wanted to make things right. At the beginning, things looked sincere and promising but after a few months he was reverting back to his old ways which was a heartbreaking experience for her. Yet, no matter how many times I warned her, she held on to this relationship to the very end. From the moment, I first read her I had told her that he had not changed. I had told her that he was putting on this mask of him being a different man when he really wasn’t. The sad part about this was as sweet as she was to me, she also had a habit to trying to convince me that he was really different than what I was picking up on the man.
I didn’t argue with her, I only warned her. The next spiritual message I said to her was he was being dishonest with her about who he was and how was hiding a deep dark secret that she never knew about. I even saw her not feeling well and some how the message was related to him giving her health issues. At that time I thought maybe it was just a bad cold but it was deeper than that. She got sick and got tested only to find out she caught STDs. She didn’t know how except only to think it was from him. It turns out he knew he had Stds and he purposely infected her so she would not leave the relationship and try to be with another man. This was one of the hardest times she was going through, and its hard when a client truly believes she needs to work this out with him because he is supposed to be her true love and soul mate. Many times, I told her to leave him as he would not treat her well and take her for granted. But no matter how much I tried to persuade her to look at the truth of who he was, her blinders were on and she only wanted believe her truth instead.
Things got even tougher when she came back to tell me, that she was engaged to him! I was flabbergasted at the news. Literally, I was thinking to myself “what is she doing?” After all the harsh things he said to her, the fact she now has Std’s and now he even blames her for how the relationship was going, she still hung in there. I was so annoyed at that time and even when she told me all the signs pointed that she should leave the relationship she told me no she will do whatever it takes to have this relationship because she loves him. Also, she was pregnant with their first child. Once again, I told her the truth that he was using her and that the pregnancy wasn’t out of love it was to keep her attached to him so that no man would come to her. Turns out, she told me that I was being unsupportive of her relationship and not able to see what she was seeing. She was really upset because she told me she was spending all this money on readings only to not get what she needed from me. I was shocked as I was trying so hard to warn her everything that happened was unfolding. I guess the one question she asked was “if this marriage was going to last?” I asked her if she wanted an honest answer to that. And her answer was “just tell me whatever you want to tell me.” My prediction for her was “ Spirit says get a prenup because if you do not do this he will take you for a ride and take everything from you when you do divorce. I do not know how long this marriage will last, it feels short to me. But when you do divorce him, the entire truth of why did what he did will come out and it will anger you to the point that its going to be hard to trust men. But at least your child will be the biggest blessing for you in the end of this.”
After that last prediction, I did not hear from her for a good 3 years. Seriously, she never came back until a last month! It was then, that she remembered my readings and told me the honest truth of her situation. Everything she saw was a mask, he totally explained to her why he got her pregnant and why he gave her Stds , he even said that he did not really love her. The hardest part was he was cheating on her. Then she said to me “ you know what was the kicker? I am now in the middle of divorcing him and I wish I had listened to all the warnings you gave me. I did not get a prenup as you suggested and now I am been taken for a ride.”
It was very hard for her to admit the truth of everything I could see at the time but regardless I still was warm and compassionate to her and tried to be her emotional support for one of the toughest times yet. I am surprised she remembered me but I also know that she is going to be a long term client. Even though she had some rough times, I still was able to give her some good news with someone new coming in her life. I told her that even though there are the roughest times, as long as she saw some growth in herself, then that is what really matters. She totally agreed about the life changing experience she had. She also told me she appreciated the fact that I didn’t give false hopes. As a reader, I have learned to not ignore the spiritual messages that come through even if its not the best of news. I have learned whether its good or bad news I want my client to be able make the best of either outcome. More importantly, I always want to be able to feel I am doing the best I can as messenger and that I am able to empower a client at the end of each session.
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