Have you ever gotten a psychic reading? Do you ever question why psychic predictions don’t seem to manifest? As a psychic medium I have done countless readings over the past 25 years and have seen clients feeling frustrated by predictions not coming to pass. However, when it comes to getting a psychic reading, the purpose of the reading is to help a client have clear options so they can make well informed decisions of what works best for them. Most clients think psychic readings are about just making predictions , getting the details of what will happen in future but that is far from what real professional psychics really do. A psychic reading is also about getting trusted advice from your advisor. And its important look at the advice given and decide for yourself if it is fitting to your needs of the situation you have asked about.
Today, I am hear to explain to you what it means when you get a psychic reading with me. When it comes to psychic readings its not the latest details that are important to me when I read a client but the understanding what a client needs to work on to make a prediction happen. Let me be clear what a psychic reading is not. It is not about getting the latest physical description of your soulmate and when you are meeting the. It’s also not about asking your psychic to tell you what job you are going to be doing nor is it about them telling you what career path you should take. Clients who do this are generally not ready to grow or learn now to change their life. In most cases they are just waiting things to happen and not take an active part in to be part of the solution. I know it sounds crazy but lets give look how a prediction does not come true.
Lets just say a psychic gives you a physical description and timing with who you will meet next. You may ask what he/she for a living? Have been married? Do they have kids? How tall they are? How old are they? and finally when you will meet them. Sounds good right? Only when you don’t meet them exactly as they described and around that time frame you become disappointed and feel they are scam to begin with. Well let me be honest with you here. Real psychics do NOT read like that. Most of us ( including me ) do not waste your time and energy to jump through hoops to these details. We are more concerned about the well being of your self growth. There I said it and maybe that is hard to accept but if you’re needing to have these types of descriptions of the perfect guy or woman then I might as well be honest with you that you are most likely not looking for real love. Since being in love goes much deeper than just being attracted to them. Sure you have to be attracted to him , I agree that is something that is needed to keep the relationship alive but relationships are a two way street and it requires both partners to work at it. That being said I can tell you from experience that getting these kinds of descriptions are not going to help you. In fact in most cases these kinds of predictions rarely come true.
So what does come true in a psychic reading? Well if we go back to finding your soulmate, its much better to get a description of their personality, their quirks and most importantly how they treat you in the long run. And when you find that person, then its about learning how to get along with them and how to grow with them. In fact, you are much better off doing it this way because the one habit you will break is looking for the physical description of the guy or girl you suppose to be with. That drives me crazy since most clients are trying too hard to make something like that happen and the reality is trying too hard like that never gives you the best results. A honest psychic will not lead you down the road like that no will they fluff up descriptions to boost your ego. In fact, any time I get nailed on a rating and a client says I am vague, its simply because they are looking for fluff and it pains me to always have to say “I am sorry,I don’t get a physical description or time frame. However, I can offer the personality and other traits that you will encounter. I also do not want you to be going out there trying to look for them this way.” As hard as it is for a client to hear this, I rather be upfront and honest then to give you a fairy tale about all these details that are not as important as the person they are deep down inside when you finally meet them.
I may not be the front page reader on Kasamba, but I don’t have to be as I have a vast amount of clients I have worked with over the years. One of the things I do best is reading tarot cards. The start of reading is usually a tarot card reading and I read each card to the client with just grabbing the messages off the cards. From there, spirit takes over and I start light trancing messages coming from my guides. One of the things I do best is give the exact steps that need to be taken by a client in order for a prediction to happen. Predictions don’t happen because we predict them, it is up to client to take the necessary steps to reach that outcome naturally. Here’s a good example I will share with you.
Recently this month, I have earned an Excellent review from a client below.
“She can be trusted!!! All of her predictions have always come to pass! Been talking with her for 10 yrs!!! She is straightforward and will tell you the truth….even if it’s not want u want to hear! That’s only because she is authentic and TRULY CARES!!! Trust me, I have learned the HARD WAY by dismissing her insight, advice and predictions!!! I’ll never make that mistake again!!!! If you don’t want fluff…but someone who is a genuine, gifted psychic, then she is your girl!!!! 100% hands down the absolute best on here!!!!!!! And I’ve spoke to many over the years!!!!!!! Many blessings and hugs to all!!! 🙂 Love and light! – urmysunshine31 Apr 5 2017”
Let me tell you, this was a client who would come to me every now and then to get a reading but a lot of what I shared with her was the same news over and over. I always gave the good and bad news of a relationship. I think the hardest part as a psychic is tell a client that if they don’t change the way they do things then the result is the same no matter what. The thing is as client, if you do not make changes, you do not get results that you want. Most clients will do the absolute opposite of what is suggested. They don’t tell me about it. I mean even this current one wouldn’t tell me everything until the very end where she realize that she can’t force someone to love her. The end result was no matter how many times, I said leave that relationship, she hung in there to try to prove me wrong! Of course, I also mentioned that eventually if she kept dancing with this man, their relationship would come to end regardless. The bottom line was she pretty much dug herself a deep hole that the relationship ended in a nasty way. In the end she returned to me, and now she is following guidance and getting the results she is looking for. It might have taken a good 10 years to get some kind of feedback like this but at the same time she has come to a realization to not go against advice and to take the steps necessary to achieve a better outcome for herself. That being said she is much happier and not full of misery and she feels more empowered and even understands that she is the one makes the ultimate choices in her life. As she follows the advice given gradually she sees things falling into place and in the end she understands what life really has to offer for her as well.
If you are going to get a psychic reading, here are a few tips:
- Be ready to own up to the responsibility of how things got to where they are. Something just doesn’t happen. If you are asking about a person and why their behavior is so different, be ready to own up to the fact that you may actually have allowed them to act the way they do now. We often don’t realize how we react to things. Be more conscious of now to react to what is going on in your life.
- Be ready to take steps to make changes as suggested. If you are not open to do necessary changes, then a psychic reading wont be worth the investment to begin with. I certainly am about improving someone’s self’s growth as that is what make psychic readings more effective.
- Predictions don’t just happen. They happen because you decided to take control and no longer want to keep doing the same thing to yourself.
- Learn to break behavior. We all have our quirks and we all have our own issues. Learn be honest in seeing your true self and put your best effort in making those changes in your behavior.
- Don’t expect results in a matter of weeks. Lets be realistic, this isn’t about you making a change for a few weeks in hopes that someone will get the hint! Yeah those never go well, if you are going to be like that the honest truth is you don’t really want to improve yourself for the better. A lot of clients do this to me, they want miracles and think if they do these changes for a few weeks the results should happen. Quite honesty, it took time for things to be the way they are now, so don’t expect instant results in a matter of weeks.
- Don’t ask for a timing when you have yet to start the work on your end. I will say timing only comes to me naturally when my client has invested some real work on making changes. This means it could take a few months for a real shift to happen in your life. That is the real truth, I rather be honest than give a false timing. I have always said I cant give a timing until a client is consistent in their efforts of making their changes.
Take my advice, if you are looking to make a prediction happen, understand you have the power to make it happen. It always starts with you. You are the power. You have control and its only when start taking advice on a consistent basis that you are one step closer to getting the results you are looking for.
You make a great point about learning to break behaviors. My cousin has been having a hard time letting go of her ex. She should probably see a psychic.
Letting go is not easy to do. People are afraid to let go because they think its about losing someone or something when in reality it only means to let go of the detachment of the unhealthy behaviors and habits to the person or situation they are dealing with.